Falling in love online..any advice on subject? how to tell if it's real or if you are being played a fool?

i met this guy online, we are kinda far apart,never met in person, and havent even talked on the phone. but when we chat its for hours and he seems so sincere that I want to believe in this guy and have faith in him but i don't know it's hard for me to completely trust..and he seems very busy all the time lately..and sometimes i go off on the over-emotional deep end sometimes and leave crazy messages which i feel is only pushing him away...but it's only because i am torn between really falling for him and really feeling hurt when days go by without a word...any advice... i'm so confused i'm not sure what to think...Falling in love online..any advice on subject? how to tell if it's real or if you are being played a fool?
Give it time, but be careful. So far, you've only chatted...try using webcam and phone calls.





It's true that there are a lot of whackos online, but there are real people here too.





I met my boyfriend online. We chat whenever possible, stare at each other's eyes on cam and talk on the phone as often as we can(and expensive too- lol). It's hard being in this kind of relationship. It will require a lot of trust between the two of you.





For now, don't focus all your attention on him, date off-line too.





Good luck!Falling in love online..any advice on subject? how to tell if it's real or if you are being played a fool?
forget about it.....to know someone in net is too virtual not reality...





there many nice guys out there without net....check it out before falling for virtual (something not real and too many hidden secret of another party)
Believe.
Beware of scams when looking for love online !





An online dating scam is when a scammer, male or female, creates a false profile and makes contact via an online dating agency or a chat room. The scammer professes that they are seeking romance or a soul mate: however, he or she only wants your money.





Check the sites below





Seduced into scams: Online lovers often duped


This one is from MSNBC -Second website
Be careful......I met a man from here once and we dated .long distance , we broke up .........then he came back into my life and married me last DEC........I have not seen him since........He is in the Military and he did it to get the extra benefits..........and this DEC I am getting a DIVORCE.........Meet the old fashion way.............It easy to get feelings for someone on line ..........You can get hurt here to...........I don't wanna on line relationship..........Good LUCK
I met my wife online. We chatted for a while, then finallt talked on the phone for awhile. When we finally did meet, we already knew each other. After meeting, which was at a place she chose, it was as normal as any people meeting.
not a good idea.
this guy is proubly married with kids, thats why he is very busy..and why he hasnt talked to you on the phone..think about it and let this man go...he is playing you like a fiddle...when he has time he is singing loud when he dont have time he dont sing at all..dont fall for this man..find someone who is for real..good luck.
you know the truth, we can not tell you
99% of people on the internet aren't who they say they are. Keep your feelings very much in check until you get actual proof that the person you think you are talking to is actually the person. They might be a lot older than they say and have a lot more emotional problems than has already been displayed.